Use rectangular-coordinate definitions and keep corresponding coordinates aligned.
\[\begin{aligned}(i) \ AB^2 &= 18,\ BC^2\\&= 18,\ AC^2\\&= 36\Rightarrow AB\\&= BC\end{aligned}\]
\[\begin{aligned}(ii) \ AB^2 &= 18,\ BC^2\\&= 18,\ AC^2\\&= 36\\&= AB^2+BC^2\Rightarrow\angle B\\&= 90^\circ\end{aligned}\]
\[\begin{aligned}(iii) \ A+C &= (3,-5,9)\\&= B+D\end{aligned}\]
\[\text{Thus diagonals }AC\text{ and }BD\text{ have the same midpoint, so }ABCD\text{ is a parallelogram.}\]
The final relation satisfies the original coordinate or distance condition, completing the verification.
Final answers by part\[(i) \text{ isosceles};\ (ii) \text{ right-angled at }B;\ (iii) \text{ parallelogram}\]